Those private moments have given me a unique window into understanding the different types of dating games men play and their underlying motivation for playing.
Who hasn’t fallen for that grand opening dating game, where they lure us with intoxicating conversations, funny dates, a perfect little heart necklace, delicious kisses and more? Fortunately, I’ve logged many therapy hours listening to men as they’ve opened up and explored their deepest needs and fears.
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For your convenience, these can now be found in the Dating Advice for Women Series How could he disappear so quickly after he came on so strong? Believe it or not, they also fear rejection and abandonment. The dating games men play are both unconscious and conscious games which create a maddening push-pull with your heart.
A guy who leaves you on the line just isn’t worth it.
After all, you want a man who romantic; he held your hand and gave you a kiss.
They tease us with clever poems, roses, daily texts and calls, only to turn around in the blink of an eye and completely disappear or disappoint us.
Their behavior can be confusing, frustrating and maddening.
We all know the guy (or guys) who plays uncool, perplexing and completely ridiculous mind games that leave you wondering, “WTF?!