Rather, my goal was simple: to find a guy I could date more than three times, hoping this would lead to a relationship.
There is a double standard in society when it comes to dating a lot of people.
When women embark on an endless journey of dates, society often sympathizes with them, attributing their lack of success to the cliché that there are no decent men out there.
When I was looking for love, I often dated up to three guys simultaneously.
I wasn't trying to hit some number in the Guinness Book of World Records.
Since there was no way to know who would stick around, I dated as many guys as I was interested in at the same time.
That's why I'm an advocate for "volume dating."I dated 30 men in 15 months in order to eventually meet my husband.
He begged me to support him, promising me that he will double my money if I can assist him. Today I had to hurry home so I could text him on time. Two months after my beloved military husband died I was friending anyone who asked as I was craving to hear from any of my husband's friends! He wrote to me in French and then would ask, "Do you want to know what I said my dear? On it was a clip of a fire on an oil rig..oil rig!!! But my heart won and sent him only three grand to aide him.
I said no..came back with 00 and I said no...the end he asked for at least 0 and I declined acusing him of being a fake..kind of CEO are you if you're not able to supply your material and pay your debts???? I decided to keep him occupied in order to maybe safe another sweet, kind woman like me. " He had me cut my finger as he did, (he sent an image of a finger with blood at the tip), he told me to repeat after him the vows that would bind us as BLOOD husband and wife! Low and behold he needed assistance with getting his 'Goods' from China so that he can make the repairs and finally come meet me in Minnesota. To this day I cannot believe I threw away money to that scum bag Nigerian 😡It took me a whole year to finally fully detach from him.
He asked for my snail address to send me a card but what I got was a dozen long stem Roses, a teddy bear and a box of Candy. Every Day I did an ip search and boy this guy traveled! I was getting bored with him so I told him I was very poor and I had nothing to offer him. He has just gone on a mission to Nigeria but this will be his last mission before he retires. We talked almost every day and discovered a lot of things that we had in common. God bless you all and let's help to stop this Hello, I was just contacted by a Kevin Whittle.
That didn't work so then when he told me after Christmas he would come and visit me but he wasn't in the state and that was the bye bye. He was very upset that the law took the custody of his kids and her ex wife became the only parent having the whole custody. He says he's an oil rig engineer living in Long Beach, CA.
We were both on a dating site and he quicky asked me to jump over to Yahoo and use regular email so I set up a bogus account on Yahoo and also gmail, and Installed the chat. Widowed, one child , age 15 however, once we got to regular email his emails were very choppy. He said he was self Employed oil rig engineer in Houston, Tx with 8 men working with him. He was very nice and protective at the beginning but soon after he tried to infiltrate into my life. I heard the horror stories and thought how stupid to fall for that rubbish. These scum bags have their scams down to a fine science. Do not give this person or persons money as they are scammers.