This is so obvious I’m surprised it needs mentioning. Masturbation as well as porn has no relationship to how sexually satisfied he is with you. Secondly, we enjoy it because it engages our most primitive instincts and lights up our brain. Women we are extremely attracted to and ones that we are repulsed by are also included. Right now he is clearly disconnected from you and is drifting around. Once someone starts disconnecting all sorts of whacky behavior creeps in.
You may have talked with her about daily logistics or superficial things. Studies show that over the course of a relationship, a woman’s desire for sex decreases while her desire for tenderness increases.
“Clear the mechanism.” Her body has changed since having kids.
The problem is that our desire for sex stays just as high as always.
Even at its highest state, her appetite might not have been as high as yours and probably never will be. Take the kids out for a day, run some errands for her, or clean the house. Give her music to listen to and light some candles. Women put a lot of pressure on themselves to be the perfect mom–to have it all together.
It can be tough when you and your older partner can’t share childhood commonalities (dude’s never read a book!?
), but the benefits can certainly outweigh those little things.
Anyone who’s been in a serious long-term relationship knows the journey isn’t without certain challenges, and when you’re dating an older man—we’re talking a decade or more—things can get even trickier.
I know this firsthand, as I’m 25 years old, and I’ve been dating an older guy nearly 15 years my senior for almost four years.
There are lots of women that would make suitable friends. Why not put your effort towards the ones you find most attractive?
Initial sexual attraction has probably forged the majority of male/female friendships.
However, these 5 Reasons Your Wife Doesn’t Want Sex will help you understand and show you what to do. When you’re out, direct your eyes to her rather than other places.