While most of us probably hate our best friend’s exes more than they do themselves after listening to countless stories about them playing Xbox instead of taking them out on dates or being their shoulder to cry on when they cheated, some of us may also have experienced developing a crush on a friend’s former partner. She returned from travelling to find them living together. It’s still pretty awkward when everyone thinks about it too hard.” “HELLLLLL NOOOOOOO. Let’s go with Whitney Houston, ‘It’s not right, but it’s okay’.” “Maybe you’ve got to ask your BBF if it’s okay because you’re in love and maybe they’d understand. “I wouldn’t touch any of my friends or best friends’ exes – it’s just not even in my mind to do that stuff I guess, but maybe it’s because I haven’t actually ever been into them either.” “I’ve been with a best friend’s ex, as in we slept together a couple of times.
Well we asked girls and guys from MTV if they think it’s okay to date your best friend’s ex and here’s what they had to say… There are only so many suitable fish in the sea and as long as there’s no bad blood between the friend and ex, and the friend is cool with it, what’s the big deal? ” “My best friend’s older sister ended up MARRYING her ex. I will say it’s dependent on how much this person meant to the best friend. Sometimes you’ve just got to step to one side and let love do it’s thing. “So actually, I’m torn between if it’s okay or not.
" This is the status I was greeted with this week on the Facebook page of one of my dear girlfriends.
Editor's note: Audrey Irvine is a senior assignment manager for CNN.Her experiences in the dating world inspire her "Relationship Rant" column.Now I know what most of you are thinking right now– ” Is this woman insane?!How the HELL do you find it normal to be such great friends with a family member of a person you broke up with?" Oddly enough, after viewing some of the discussion on the comment thread, I realized that my judgment might have been a little harsh.
I'm not trying to generalize, but most of my female friends talk about past boyfriends, dissecting why their relationships didn't work.
At the time it was exciting doing something we shouldn’t. They got back together and as far as I know they’re still together with a kid.
“Of course now looking back I think it was wrong, but sometimes you just want to do something reckless and don’t think of the outcome. I also think it depends on how close you and your friend are.
It is hard to get over people we really fall for but if its over then its over and really only time will heal. hi grey, when i heard from a friend that he liked my best friend, and then i didnt know whether it was true or not so i did put him on the spot and ask him if he liked her.
Just talk to him and if he is a decent guy he will be honest with you. He said that it was true and then we got into a massive argument over it, we made up eventually, and then today my best friend told me that he was dating her!
Whether or not my experiences turned out good or bad, I’ve always learned from them.