This article is about consensual adult sadomasochistic activity.
For the medical condition involving non-consensual ideation or behaviour, see Sexual sadism disorder.
I dressed as instructed, then stood before the wall-length mirror in my apartment's hallway.
Smiling into the mirror, I snapped a photo on my i Phone and sent it to Ben*. We were in a dominant/submissive relationship — or playing at one, anyway — and following his orders got me unbelievably turned on.
Thirty seconds later, a text message: Then I knew I could leave for work. Ben cheated on his girlfriend, Rachel, with me; he lied about going on a break with her for me.
I was so upset when I found out he lied that I emailed her and told her he'd been cheating.
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♦ All levels of BDSM (those just testing the waters, subs in training or a 24/7 lifestyle commitment). When you enter any type of BDSM arrangement, it’s important to discuss your goals, desires and needs with your partner.
(Ephesians -26) The husband and wife who choose to enter into a consensual Dominant/submissive relationship are choosing to fully enact this commandment in their sexual life, a choice that is valid and honorable, and may bring them both deep sexual and spiritual fulfillment.
BDSM, practiced responsibly, can be a tool of growth for both partners in a Christian marriage, as it allows them to more fully explore God's plan for spiritual and sexual partnership.
Given the wide range of practices, some of which may be engaged in by people who do not consider themselves as practicing BDSM, inclusion in the BDSM community or subculture is usually dependent upon self-identification and shared experience.
and is interpreted as a combination of the abbreviations B/D (Bondage and Discipline), D/s (Dominance and submission), and S/M (Sadism and Masochism).
Just as we trust in the Lord in our submission to Him and willingly offer it, a wife who is submissive to her husband is offering a great spiritual gift and doing a great service for both herself and her husband. Even Christ, the Son of God, was submissive to the Lord: 7 In the days of his flesh, Jesus offered up prayers and supplications, with loud cries and tears, to the one who was able to save him from death, and he was heard because of his reverent submission.