Conventional wisdom tells us that singles should always "dress to impress" when going on a first date.
But I hope that most guys are not judging books by the cover.
In other words, I hope what most guys are looking for is a book with a pretty cover and a great story inside. So, is it less shallow to say that guys are attracted to a girl at FIRST by how she looks, but then there must be more to formulate a deeper relationship?
Looks and attraction is all relative to the person.
On the other side, you may be surprised just how attractive someone can be once you get to know them.
It’s important and I do agree with the above g URLS, however when I first met my boyfriend, I wasn’t necessarily physically attracted to him.
I believe girls, including me at the time, have standards higher held than girls in the past would, because of how media is portraying beauty.Gary Lewandowski Jr., Chair of the Department of Psychology at Monmouth University, said only 1 in 10 Americans ranking appearance first is surprising and suggests people are uneasy when answering survey questions about dating, sex and relationships."What people say they'll do is often different from what they actually do," he said. Lewandowski, who spends his days researching this type of phenomenon, said our findings are supported by his own research, which shows how a good personality affects a person's attractiveness."There is research that shows for picking partners, people often say things other than attractiveness matter, but when researchers tracked who people selected to date, it was largely based on attractiveness."What's ironic, according to Lewandowski, is that those other traits are far more important to long-term compatatabiliy. He refers to this as "the malleability of opposite-sex physical attractiveness" and said it is an integral part of how our brain interprets attractiveness.The more I got to know my boyfriend, the more physically attractive he became in my eyes.Not even a short while after beginning to date, I found him sexy and handsome (and his attractiveness just increases even to this day).But she was quick to point out that I won't approach a girl who is not petite and is not shorter than me.