Men have several arguments for not wanting to commit and some of these reasons may just surprise you. Men need to feel masculine They are the protector, the comforter, and the provider. A woman who says "screw it" instead of getting all weepy is more likely to keep a man. Men are charmingly simple Their emotions are like a child's.In other words, a man wants a woman who thinks like a man, but doesn't act like a man. They want this, they hate that, and if you scare them they bolt.
Or maybe you’ve been a devoted reader of this site and now that you’re having some success, you’re feeling like a kid in the candy store and want to explore your options for a while.Or maybe you’re just a serial dater; you’re in it for the rush, that new relationship energy, the passion and the thrill of sexual novelty.Mature couples don't “fall in love,” they step into it. How can you tell if your relationship is in it for the long haul or the two-month plummet everyone predicted behind your love-obsessed back? Drama is for people who don't know how to have a relationship — who live by idealistic, preconceived notions that love must be wild and obsessive. It's something that happens naturally; it doesn't need to be fought for day in and day out. A mature relationship lives by this peace of mind; immature ones drown in it. It burns dimly when you're together, but you wave it off with sex and constant chatter. Immature relationships are formed by two incomplete people. They are two people looking for something that can't be found in another person.Love isn't something you fall for; it's something you rise for. First, it should be easy, from the beginning to end. When you love someone, and he or she loves you, and there's no doubt to his or her feelings and no doubt to yours, that's peace of mind. They dominate each other, force themselves together and make one flawed mesh of a human. They are two individual people looking to make two better people.Women show the opposite trend, with only 2 percent marrying men 6-9 years younger and only 1 percent having a spouse 10 or more years younger. If it seems like men who remarry often go for younger women, well, it’s not far from reality (Pew Research Center, 2014).
When remarrying, only 57 percent of men marry women about their same age; 20 percent choose women who are 10 or more years younger, and 18 percent choose partners six-to-nine years younger.
They already know the answers, and they don't need reassurance from their partners.
It's about pushing each other to pursue their passions, interests and become the best person possible. It's easy to spend days in bed and weekends in the hazy world of blankets and kisses.
Falling denotes lowering oneself, dropping down and being stuck somewhere lower than where you started. Love isn't like that — at least not with people who are doing it right. Because love is either a passing game, or it's forever. There are no passionate fights with passionate make-up sex. The love between the two of them isn't about making both of them whole again, but more individual.
It's the calmest place in your life, the safest blanket you've ever worn. It eats away at you when you go to sleep or leave each other for just a few hours. There is never a feeling that something has been taken away or is leaving with the other person.
It is nearly impossible to tell the difference between men looking for a fling and men wanting a long term relationship.