The whole perception of ugly people is that they are of lower stature than everyone else.
But, every now and then, a couple pulls the switch off this genetic equilibrium.
And Now, I'm certainly not going to put myself into the same camp with the Julia Roberts and Padmas of the world...
Especially if you're like a lot of us who are not that attractive. In order to be successful in ugly dating, you must not let the illusions of society hold you back.
Our Ugly Dating is geared towards people who may feel unattractive or uncomfortable in their own skin and is designed to help them succeed in meeting others who value genuine personality over outer appearance. Because it is the complete opposite of what society teaches. All around us we see gorgeous people, on television, in movies and magazines. You must not think that you would only be happy with a superstar.
, though I would probably argue that Kevin James is kind of a stud, and really, that's exactly the point I plan on making-- and we see it in our friends.
There are plenty of studies on this strangely anti-Darwinian phenomenon - studies which I think don't answer the question as well as I, with my oh-so-steadfast opinions, can, do, and will. Let's talk about what exactly is wrong with these conventionally attractive men, and let's talk about what is right about these, well, conventionally -attractive men.
To explain: These high-school hotties are used to having the sort of unadulterated, fawning adoration that the symmetrically blessed always get in high-school, but the problem is that it doesn't do them any good. I also have a little (and relatively untested) theory.
In fact, it's fair to say that it categorically does them harm. I believe that women tend to come into themselves -- appearance-wise -- much later in school than men.
“It’s like your biggest accomplishment is something you didn’t do yourself.”She wasn’t being rude; I’m not beautiful in the traditional sense.
I have pock-marked skin, hooded eyes, and a bulbous nose.
They're trained from a young age to be (often) unjustifiably self-assured, to eschew personality and affability for cocksure confidence, and to generally treat people like the feudal system is alive and kickin'. And because of this I think women tend to retain some memory of what it means to be liked (or disliked) for who one is, not how one looks.