Why Some Relationships Fail Before getting into the meat of what to do, I’d like to take a little bit of time to share with you statistics about relationships.
If you’re divorced, or have ended a long-term relationship, well-meaning relatives and friends may encourage you to start dating again soon.
So I decided to sit down and come up with an FAQ / survival guide for divorced guys who are looking to get back in the game.
Love will not arrive at your doorstep, so it is time to get out in the world once more.Volunteering or taking up hobbies in a social setting will increase the likelihood of finding a compatible partner with shared interests — a great starting point for a new relationship.There will still be old scars, and a bad experience can prove to be a tremendous setback, removing the Band-Aid once again.Singles bars or the pressure of blind dates can prove to be too much for a divorced person re-entering the dating world, in addition to being an unrewarding experience that forces an immediate retreat in the quest for love.What you’re about to read is what I’ve learned by talking to hundreds of guys who have been through a divorce plus all of the research I have done over the years.
This list focuses on the things I coached them on that worked and helped them to get through one of the most hellacious periods of their life.But how will you know when you're ready for a new relationship?“This wildly varies from person to person,” says Judith Sills, Ph D, a Philadelphia-based psychologist and author of Getting Naked Again: Dating, Romance, Sex, and Love When You've Been Divorced, Widowed, Dumped, or Distracted.This is the first podcast in our Dating after Divorce series with Cassie Zampa-Keim, renowned dating and relationships strategist, author, speaker, and coach.Cassie shares how to get off the bench and start dating again, her Date Smart strategies, and how to overcome the fear and anxiety that come with getting back out there. Breakups are never easy, but finding love after a divorce can seem even harder, sometimes.