I know she is of age legally to have sex but what do you think.
Its not necessarily down to the fact I cant get a girl of my age (my ex is 21) but I feel like shes jail bait even though she is legal.
This question is actually the kind of question I've wanted to answer for someone else for years.
I've had countless discussions with myself about it before, and think I generally have a pretty good idea of how to answer it now.
I started dating a girl in middle school as well, when I was 12 and she was 13.
I'm going to say that there's a point to the people saying you don't know what your doing, there's no reason for you to date, you're not mature enough or it's not appropriate for your age.
Although it's usually true that girls do mature socially earlier than boys do, we are not talking here about socialization skills -- we are talking about 11-year-olds dating.
I would not belittle or embarrass your daughter by making fun of her sudden attraction to "the guys at school," but I would set clear dating guidelines at this time.
It's because of this urban legend that has gone around forever.
Based upon this rule, the only time that a man can date a woman his own age is when he's 14 years old (because half of 14 is seven, and seven plus seven is 14).
And that means I can date a woman who is 16." From where did this ridiculous rule come?
You can date someone as young as half your age plus seven years? It's no wonder that so many women feel that men their own age are too immature.
As her older sister (even though we don’t get along at all) I am scared for her and wanna help her see how dangerous that can be, but like I said we don’t get along well and not sure she’d listen to me, plus I don’t even know what or how to say it too her.